Ann Allan: Memories No 2: Growing up in Rostrevor.

24966197-8745-4797-8CDE-81CC82F7068F.jpegIn 1950 George VI was on the throne. Northern Ireland was governed by Unionists under the leadership of Lord Brookeborough.

We never discussed politics at home or at least not in front of the children so we were oblivious to the nuances of the time. Until the attack at the bus depot, which I reckon was in 1956, we didn’t knowwhat was going on in Northern Ireland politics. We were, I think what is now referred to as Castle Catholics. We were happy with the status quo but others around us were awakening to the fact that there was a need for change. Lord Brookeborough had in 1950 been Prime Minister for nearly 20 years. The explosion at the bus depot was the start of a bombing campaign along the border. I remember being in bed and hearing the loud explosion. The lights dimmed and we were all very frightened. However, the campaign fizzled out and for many years things remained calm, until a young preacher called Paisley appeared on the scene. He formed the Free Presbyterian church in 1951 and his sermons mostly focused on his contempt of Roman Catholicism and homosexuality. He didn’t get involved in politics until the late fifties, but he was to feature in the instability of Northern Ireland through the thirty years of the troubles.

The G.A.A. was an integral part of life growing up in Rostrevor.  Weekly football matches provided entertainment. My dad was a staunch GAA supporter and I accompanied him with my brothers to matches in Croke Park. I was there, when in 1961, Down won the all Ireland championship and brought the Sam Maguire Cup across the border. I remember waiting in Newry for the bus returning with the team and the cup. Unfortunately my interest in sport waned from then on but my dad and my brothers were staunch Down supporters. I was unaware of the fact that Gaelic football was a sport confined to the catholic community until I was a lot older.

I was actually very lucky being born in 1949. The war now over, the Labour F41BC61C-9BBD-40A5-AA46-D94EE31CBBD5government, with the vision of Aneurin Bevan introduced the National Health Service. The welfare state was introduced in the UK in 1948 and my siblings and I were able to enjoy the benefits of free education. Those, living in the United Kingdom, were now able to avail of free health care, from the cradle to the grave. With free education the way was open for those who wanted to better themselves and to challenge those who had held the majority of power at Stormont for almost 40 years. Unfortunately that didn’t work out to well and it was nearly thirty years before the Good Friday agreement was put in place guaranteeing equality for all citizens of Northern Ireland. However that agreement has stumbled along half heartedly and as a result has come to a stalemate and we are back to the pre 1998 days.

I had to avail of the  health service earlier than I would have wanted, when at age of seven, I was rushed to hospital with a septic appendix. I knew even at age seven I was seriously ill when a priest appeared at my bedside and administered the last rites. Never thought much of the Catholic Church after that. My opinion would be justified in years to come. What were they thinking? Frightening a seven-year old!  Unlike today, when most patients are discharged within twenty-four hours, I remained in hospital for two weeks, followed by bed rest for another two weeks at home. Visiting hours were extremely strict. I remember to this day feeling that while in hospital I had been abandoned by my parents and refusing to 063997B6-9278-4E01-9EE9-6DB30B970CF0speak to them when they did visit. Thankfully visiting restrictions were lifted or at least relaxed which made my second stay in hospital at the age of ten less traumatic. The local doctor called quite often during my convalescence and the district nurse called every day and administered intravenous antibiotics. Due to some misunderstanding the district nurse didn’t stop after two weeks and I received the injections for nearly a month.

My dad was the local town surveyor and many times I accompanied him while he worked. I often went with him to a water source at Kilfeaghan. A trek by car up the side of the mountain and then across a river. Then a long walk to make sure that the good people of Warrenpoint were not having any water problems. Well, with their drinking water anyway. At the top, in a ramshackle cottage lived a farmer called Dan White. He lived there through all weathers with his collie. He grew potatoes in the clean mountain soil. We left with bags of them and they were delicious, boiled in their skins and eaten with a knob of butter nothing like them in the shops today. He would walk into Rostrevor to do his shopping, carrying a large stick and with a large rucksack over his shoulder. His collie dog by his side. He smelt of burning wood from the fire in his cottage. I recently discovered that Dan’s cottage has been renovated and can now be rented out. A beautiful location for a holiday.

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We also had two lovely district nurses in Rostrevor in the fifties. One was my aunt, who sadly died from Motor Neurone Disease in the sixties but while she was able they used to take us girls from the local area on outings to a cottage beside Dans. We had picnics, played games and enjoyed the mountain air. A makeshift swing hung from one of the trees and many happy hours were spent swinging and pushing others.  I dread to think how many of us piled into the cars that took us there. It was also867267BF-0DA7-4A18-8A66-FCB45B992F9E my first introduction to an outside chemical toilet. After using it for the first time it became the practice to go before I came out or wait until I got home.

While on the mountain with my dad he used to scare us by telling us about an American plane that crashed in a bog on the mountain. He told us that their ghosts roamed the area and we had better watch out. It was very quiet up there and we were very gullible. It was also extremely marshy and I can remember many heart stopping moments when my wellies sunk into the bog. In later years I did learn that there was some truth in this and that an American plane had indeed crashed in the Mournes, only closer to Annalong. It was beautiful up there and we loved the feeling of freedom. 8ED7D9BB-8B35-4A20-BDD3-F5E8FFF678DD

Being the eldest in the family I tended to accompany my dad quite a bit and one of our trips during the period of rationing in Northern Ireland was to cross the Lough in a small boat to a ‘pop up shop’  opposite Narrow Water. There we could buy sugar, butter and other rationed items. I think my dad bought cigarettes although he wasn’t a big smoker but he did enjoy a cigar on a special occasion. There were no customs to check on the purchases unlike when we crossed the land border. Another crossing was from Warrenpoint to Omeath but that was usual for an afternoon out and a visit to cousins who had a pub and a hotel there. My cousins owned the Park Hotel and I remember spending a week there. Not exactly the Costa Brava but it was a change. We could look across the Lough and see home.  A fact that may not be well-known is that Padraig Pearse drafted the 1916 Proclamation while a teacher at the local Irish College, now the Park Hotel.

I also accompanied my father on a survey of the outlying districts of the area one summer in 1956 /57. We visited tiny little cottages where peat fires were lit in the kitchen and the lady of the house wore a long black dress with a shawl.  Chickens wandered in and out of the kitchens, there was no electricity and the toilet was an outhouse at the back. Coming from ‘the village’ I was amazed at the living conditions not realising how hard life was for them as they tried to make a living from the land.  The lanes and fields round these cottages smelt of wild flowers and on a sunny mikadohow_kettle_workssummer’s day it was idyllic. We brought a Volcano kettle with us and dad made us tea and we ate mikado biscuits.. Some things don’t change. You can still buy both the mikado biscuits and the Volcano kettle.

There were here many religious rituals in Rostrevor in the fifties and sixties.  Palm Sunday and we paraded with pieces of palm supposedly brought from the Holy Land. Corpus Christi, when there was a procession through the village to the Convent of the Apostles. Holy Thursday when I think we scattered petals. Christmas when we sang in the choir. We sang the mass in Latin in four parts and it was wonderful. After tea every evening we would be called by my dad to say the rosary. My brothers and I would kneel behind the couch were my dad couldn’t see us and we would giggle and carry on until he realised what was going on.

In November we had ‘devotions ‘every night in the local chapel and many nights I walked home on my own. On one occasion in November I was on my way home when someone rushed out of a shop visibly distressed. President Kennedy has been shot, they shouted. I was terrified. Did the Russians shoot him? This was, after all, the time of the Cold War. Did this mean war? By the time I reached home he was dead. My father had tears in his eyes as we clambered around the television  soaking up any news that BF531899-EB36-43D0-9C91-9E2B0E0B9164would mean that the assassination wasn’t going to result in a war. The following days were tense until it was established that on the face of it the Russians weren’t involved.

I remember life in the fifties as colourless. Everything was painted brown or green. The floors were covered in oilcloth. Everything symbolised the austerity of the time. Furniture was heavy and dreary, no bright colours. No Ikea in those days.   Rationing was still in force and Britain was recovering from the war. Flower power, the Beatles, Hippies, Mods and rockers were yet to influence us.



No way Jose.

What tattoo do you want and where would you put it?

I would never have a tattoo. I know lots of people have them but I personally do not like them and can’t see why anyone wants one. Once you tattoo your skin it’s likely permanent and depending on the actual tattoo it can appear threatening.

I know younger people can be addicted and see it as body art but maybe later on in life they’ll see it as a big mistake.

Removing a tattoo ( if even possible) can be a long and probably a costly procedure.

So far none of my children or grandchildren have tattoos and I really hope they never do.

I know there are some out there reading this who will have a tattoo. If that was your choice and you’ve no regrets then my opinion is that everyone is entitled to treat their body as they see fit.

Don’t take them away from me.

What are three objects you couldn’t live without?

Well my iPhone is definitely one. I use it so much that I think it is now an extension of my left arm. Use it for social media, communications, ordering on line, getting news, banking. It’s my mini computer. Feel lost without it. Paying in shops etc. Photography.

Next would be my Apple Watch ⌚️. Use it for times, phone calls, weather, health and fitness and sleeping patterns.

Thirdly my car. I have an 8 year old Aygo which I love. Can’t imagine what I would do without a car. I have my independence to go where I want, when I want. As I’ve just turned 77 I’m aware that there will be a time coming when I will no longer be allowed to drive but I’m hoping that won’t be for a few years yet.

Trump

If you could be someone else for a day, who would you be, and why?

I would be Donald Trump and I would sack my whole corrupt cabinet.

I would send arms to Ukraine to help them defeat Russia.

I would rejoin the World Health organisation.

I would rejoin the Paris Agreement and put money into the green new deal.

I would set the people of Gaza free and put Netanyahu in prison.

I would allow all immigrants to stay on in the USA unless they had committed a serious crime.

I would reintroduce DEI.

Promote wind energy.

Close coal mines.

Admit my part in the abuse of minors as stated in the Epstein files and finally

I would have an election that I wouldn’t tamper with and then

I would bugger off to Russia and see how I like living under a dictatorship.

Home is where the heart is.

Write about your dream home.

My dream home is where I live now. It’s been our home since 1976 and my children have grown up here.

It wasn’t in great condition when we bought it but over the years we’ve put our own stamp on it and added extra rooms. It took a lot of blood sweat and tears but mostly hard earned cash to get it the way we wanted it.

It is in a suburban area so it doesn’t have great views but it has large gardens front and back and when the weathers good we can sit out on the patio and watch the many birds that visit and sit in our apple trees.

We have plenty of room to have our own space when needed. It’s cosy and warm and doesn’t have masses of large hard to clean windows or sterile tiled floors ( like many modern houses) but has warm carpets and some wooden floors. It’s a typical Edwardian house and has many of the original features.

It may not be everyone’s idea of a dream house but it’s mine and I wouldn’t want to live anywhere else.

Rain, rain and more rain.

Do you need a break? From what?

Yes I certainly do. I need a break from the awful weather we are experiencing here in Ireland at the moment. It has rained every day for at least the last three weeks.

May think of building an ark soon.

The sun has disappeared under thick cloud and as a result we have to keep the lights on all day.

Our garden is now muddy and flooded and a small stream is now running down the path to the drain.

Our two doves are sitting on leafless trees with no shelter from the rain and wind.

The golf club is closed so the hubby can’t get out. He plays 4 or 5 holes every afternoon normally. So not a happy bunny.

Walking is unpleasant as the rain is clinging and so the beach is out of the question. Did try but dark clouds descended and the spray came over the sea wall.

The forecast is not optimistic.

So I certainly need a break from the weather. It’s no longer a myth that it rains here all the time. Roll on Spring and the return of the sun.🌞

Seeing life for what it is.

How do significant life events or the passage of time influence your perspective on life?

It would be hard not to be influenced by significant events in one’s life and for those events not to influence one’s perspective on life.

When I see the wars in both Gaza and Ukraine and the cruelty inflicted on the populations there, especially on the children, I would have to question if there is a God.

A God who would allow these atrocities cannot be an all loving God as Christianity and those who believe in a God claim.

I see young people die of cancer and other diseases and yet cruel old men, many of whom are pedophiles, manage to escape punishment and live long lives. Where is the justice in that?

Why do some have to suffer and others get off scot free?

I used to think that good would outweigh evil but the more I see of the world and the cruelty of one human to another my perspective has changed and I’m afraid that it is corrupt and evil men that are running the world.

America is becoming a dictatorship and the dictator is only friends with other dictators, not following any moral codes but using corruption to benefit themselves and their friends.

I hope people wake up soon and do something to right the wrongs but I doubt it, money is their God and they will fight to hold on to the power that enables them to hold on to it.

I’m 76 ( almost 77 ) and the passage of time has shown me that society is going backwards and we are heading into dystopian times.

I hope for my children and grandchildren I am wrong but major events tell me otherwise.

Fun, fun, fun.

List five things you do for fun.

Walking especially in a new area.

Spending time with my children and grandchildren.

Playing Words with Friends.

Watching tv.

Writing my blog every day on Facebook.

Maybe not everyone’s idea of fun but at 76 I’ve given up skate boarding, surfing and white knuckle rides. Lol Only joking.

Tayto to the rescue.

What snack would you eat right now?

As I had a bad fall last week on the beach, while trying to get a close up of a heron, I haven’t been able to get out shopping. I bruised my ribs!

So not a lot of treats in the kitchen.

But this afternoon on further investigation discovered a bag of Tayto cheese and onion crisps ( potato chips). There was some fresh white bread so I buttered 2 slices of bread and put the crisps on top and had a crisp sandwich. 🥪 Delicious. 🤤

Try it you won’t regret it. 😉

Limited Power.

What is your mission?

A hard question to answer! Globally or locally?

To be happy, healthy and to treat others as I would want to be treated. To love and be loved. To live a good life. To make my family proud.

When I look around this world I see the hate that exists. The fact that nobody seems to be able to deal with the perpetrators, makes me feel that things that I can control are small in comparison.

The mission of many of our leaders are governed by power, by wealth and with no consequences as to how they achieve their goals.

In a just and democratic society Trump and his fellow dictators would be arrested, tried and put in prison but they have bought the judiciary, fixed elections and their mission is to destroy the world order and to take control.

So my mission has to be family and community oriented and to live in hope that the dictators will not succeed.